1.) "Never go to bed angry" This saying has always meant for a husband and/or wife (boyfriend, girlfriend) to have talked to each other thoroughly that particular day not just chit-chat but to really communicate how they each are feeling about the other. for example say your partner angered you, spoke to you disrespectfully or, in general they pissed you off but, neither of you discussed the particular matter/incident that angered you and the issue goes unresolved the entire day. So, you have gone the entire time since the "incident" angry that your partner said or did whatever it was that made you angry and maybe you've even had a few conversations with ur partner throughout the day and you never in any of your conversations, for one reason or another, brought up or discussed the incident that upset you, yet, you remain angry and more than likely become even angrier because first, the originating incident that upset you, second you and your other have communicated a few times during the day and your other didn't apologize or even realize you are upset with them and you didn't inform ur partner that u are angry at them so, nothing has been attempted or done to resolve the upsetting issue due to a lack of communication, an un willingness to discuss the matter because you and/or they don't want to create conflict or maybe you both have difficulty just talking to each other about serious issues and decide to just "stuff your emotions and feelings deep down and allow issues to go unresolved" which is very unhealthy for any relationship. Now, both of you are watching t.v. and it's bedtime but, you're angry because ur upsetting issue was never brought forward and talked over with ur partner and issue goes unresolved this means you are going to bed angry when the only thing that had to have been done was bring up the issue and inform ur other why or what it was they did or said that upset you and in most cases you both are able to maturely handle and ultimately resolve the issue which in turn releases your anger, informs ur partner of what they did to upset you and you can get a good night's sleep and awake to a new day, not mad at your partner thus, affording you an opportunity of a good day without the burden of a day old unresolved matter hovering above you for another day probably causing more conflict and more issues than the originating incident. Make sense?? So, my site is where you can escape to and scream, punch, yell or just write your anger out until you and your partner can sit and discuss the mornings issue, come to a resolution enjoy your day which leads to a good night at home and that way you "NEVER go to bed angry?" The above example is lengthy and is the right way to solve relationship problems. Most couples can't talk to each other and get issues resolved without an argument or some conflict so, if ur mad at ur partner but, you don't feel like or don't want to talk to them, if you hate your boss and want to cuss him/her out but know you will become instantly un-employeed, if you have kids it's your day off from work and they get on your nerves but, you can't tie them to the bed all day (just joking just joking i would NEVER HARM A CHILD OF MINE OR YOURS) and all you want is to have a day of rest, relaxation and peace, if you have a bitch for a mother-in-law, if your dog ruined your pillows and crapped in the doorway...you know what happens next....Splat! barefoot right into a steaming pile of canine crap, Bad weather ruins your vacation or just messes up your hair, or you're really down and just want to have a place to talk and not be judged and not be given advice just want to write ur feelings down to get the blah's out then sign in tohttp://thirdeyetherapy.blogspot.com/
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